"This is a brief life, but in its brevity it offers us some splendid moments, some meaningful adventures." ~Rudyard Kipling

Saturday 26 October 2013

First Impressions - Day One

I was rendered speechless by the new world around me. Absorbing the new sights and sounds took all my energy, and for the nearly five-hour, 180 km drive from Delhi, I just watched.

It looked chaotic. And I felt so out of control. We had been picked up by a stranger, in a strange land, and we really had no idea where we were going. Or a mobile phone to contact anyone. Or the language to communicate with our driver.

I watched five lanes of traffic squeeze into three.

I watched rickshaws, bicycles, and motorcycles weave in and out of cars, buses, animals & carts, pedestrians, tractors & carts, and tut tut cars . Often on the wrong side of the road. And the motorcycles often had a family of up to five on board. Drivers talking on mobiles.

I watched a tractor laden with a cache of potatoes, carrying a dozen people in the cab. And another dozen on top of and beside the load. And pulling a bicycle balancing two more people. In morning rush-hour traffic. Through the centre of one of the world's largest cities.

I watched merchant boys hawking chaat through the stalled traffic.

I watched incredible colours all around.

I watched workers in half-built structures, propped up with bamboo.

I watched street vendors of all sorts making and selling food, haircuts, drinks, firewood, iron, clothing, scarves, pottery, pots...

I watched children washing themselves under water pumps beside the street.

I watched spanking new luxury cars alongside rusted-out bangers. And horses, donkeys, and oxen with carts.

I watched feral dogs and cows wander as they pleased.

I watched beggars next to yuppies.

I watched flashy new buildings standing next to crumbling heaps.

I watched famous architectural beauty pass by to be replaced by half-built piles sprouting rebar.

I watched women carry piles of twigs on their heads next to those who were beautifully coiffed and dressed.

I watched women, men, children dressed in colourful saris, kurtas, Nehru jackets, burqas, jeans, shirts, hijabs, suits, dresses, shalwar kameez, shorts, thobes, heels, flats...anything and everything. Rags and riches.

All the sights were accompanied by incessant honking and weaving. And the sounds of Bollywood in our car.

Contrast and contradiction was all around. Order seemed to have been abandoned, and yet, there was a flow to everything, and it all worked.

I didn't see any animal dung on the road, but I saw women mixing it with straw to create fuel.

The honking was a friendly notice of presence, instead of an angry missive.

The vendors hawking their wares were happily greeted and snacks purchased.

The wild animals kept to themselves.

We arrived safely, having only experienced kindness and hospitality. Our driver noted our interest in the agriculture and detoured to show us the sugar, rice, and mango crops...fisherman in the rivers...broken down trucks spewing green, flowering vines...grass huts drying grain. And ensured we were never hungry or thirsty.

Once we were inside the gates of the campus, calmness overtook calamity. The beautiful, serene, clipped, and cultivated replaced the chaotic cacophony.

As a friend of mine commented, "India is very free." She is so very right. That declaration keeps coming back to me again and again.

It was an exhilarating, surreal beginning. I feel that anything could happen. xoxo

Friday 25 October 2013

Time for a Bit of Hanky Panky

On our last day in London we toddled off to the British Museum to see Shunga: Sex and Pleasure in Japanese Art.
Spectacular ceiling and everything else!
I always love going to the British Museum. First of all, you don't have to pay a penny; but, you can give a donation of your choice, so students, the unemployed, and OAPs needn't give a visit a second thought. Whilst some exhibitions charge, there are still an enormous number of exhibits open to all. All that aside, the building itself worth seeing! You must go the next time you're in London.
Big Ben...Elizabeth Tower, whatever you call it  - it's my favourite clock
After thoroughly enjoying the exhibition - naughty bits and all -  it was nearly Happy Hour, and our friends kindly suggested we hotfoot it over to their hotel and gossip over a drink or two.
Hanky Panky Cocktail
After the titillation of Shunga, I simply had to start with Hanky Panky, created in 1903 right there in The American Bar. It was most refreshing. Here's the recipe from The Savoy Cocktail Book:

Hanky Panky Cocktail
2 Dashes Fernet Branca
1/2 Italian Vermouth
1/2 Dry Gin (they use Blue Sapphire, but you can request your pleasure)
Shake well and strain into cocktail glass. Squeeze orange peel on top. 

That's it! Simple. We started out sitting at a discreet little table, but as the "hour" went on, we moved up to the bar where the shakers cha-cha-ed.
Getting reacquainted with the White Lady.
Round two....I opted for the first drink I ever ordered in a bar...feeling very grown-up and a little overwhelmed, I named the first drink that popped into my head - God knows from where! We became fast friends, the White Lady and I!
Mikhail, my new best friend.
As I did with the most talented & charming bartender! The American Bar is the perfect bar - classic & glamourous Art Deco backdrop, light piano tinkling away, and superb tending! Thank you to our most gracious hosts, L&P...we love you!!

What's your favourite bar?  xoxo

Thursday 24 October 2013

Sunday Lunch & a Slightly Boozy Stroll

Whoever said that British food is awful has never had a proper Sunday Lunch...for when done properly, there is no fare that can compare.

We met up with friends & family and settled in at The Prince Bonaparte in Notting Hill. I had to have Roast Pork as Canadian pork never has crackling, and this crackling was sublime! Great outer crunch, yet melted in the mouth! However, the puddings shone! Apparently, the Sticky Toffee Pudding (alas, not gluten-free, so untried by me) was one of the best e-ver! Raves all around.

It's healthy...there are dates in it!
Pulling away from the table, we put Guv's encyclopedic knowledge of London to good use and started a walking tour across London, factoring in stops for refreshment!

We popped along to Portobello Road, admiring the rainbow of life and peering into windows. Gin lover's alert: the road is home to The Ginstitute. (My cousins snuck in and bought a house bottle.) Did you know you can bottle your own blend there? It is calling to the experimentalist & gin lover in me for next time!

Don't you love the candy-coloured houses?
We meandered along a little further to Camden Hill and popped into one of my uncle's old haunts, The Windsor Castle to slake our thirst. I really love this pub - it's so cozy, with it's little low doorways, wood panelling, and nooks & crannies...however, I really love sitting in the little garden in the back, which was chock-a-block this visit where everyone was lingering in the fabulous afternoon.
Perfect for whiling away a Sunday afternoon

Refreshed, we walked through Holland Park, another favourite London green spot, and one with fond childhood memories of feeding squirrels, playing in the adventure playground, and later attending concerts and exhibitions.

Holland Park dahlias...much nicer than this piece of modern art, which I tried to miss.
We emerged from Holland Park the park, and into the beautiful Holland Park, the neighbourhood - now home to posh celebrities and embassies.

See what I mean? Beautiful!
And, as always, when in London, don't forget to look up!

Yep...she's lovely!
We walked a little further to show our friends where some of the family had lived for over sixty years until not so long ago, and then popped into their old local, The Scarsdale Tavern, another favourite for quaffing outside and watching the world go by.

The Perfect Neighbourhood Gathering Spot
We sat and chatted about how we should have more local places like this at home...to meet up with friends for the odd drink after work, before Sunday Lunch, or just because. Guv then steered us expertly through all the secret passageways and side streets, until we popped out at Kensington Gardens - another childhood favourite for visiting the famous statue of Peter Pan, feeding the ducks, or just to stroll around eating ice cream! Of course it's also famous for housing these grand digs:

Kensington Palace - home to the Duke & Duchess of Cambridge and little George
We walked on through the Park, past the Round Pond, and past the Albert Memorial...

...the Albert Memorial is in the foreground, with the Royal Albert Hall behind it.
...and then out of that park and onto Green Park, next to more nice digs, Buck House, and home to the Bomber Command Memorial, for which I have a soft spot, as my father was a rear gunner in the RAF during WWII.



That's my kind of pub crawl...hope you enjoyed it! Thanks Guv for navigating such a great (and nostalgic) day! xoxo








Wednesday 23 October 2013

Hampstead Heath

After forgetting that I am now a responsible adult, and having stayed up far too late sipping gin martinis with the young ones the night before, we all set off to Hampstead, NW London.

One of the things I love about London are the myriad of enchanting parks across the city. Well, on Hampstead Heath, you forget you are in the city at all, and can tromp over the nearly 800 acres of magical parkland: England's green & pleasant land, indeed!

The Bucolic & Soothing Green
Before our walk, we had the most lovely lunch at The Spaniards. If you click on the link, you can read all about it. As their website will tell you, Keats wrote there, and Dickens wrote about it!

Doesn't it look romantic!
During our time in England, we had a lot of very fine food, but the Prof's favourite of all? These Scotch Eggs!

 
All the food was fab - just the thing for the afternoon after the night before.

After thanking Tom for our wonderful lunch, we walked over to the Heath, passing Kenwood House, which you might recognize from the 1999 Julia Roberts/Hugh Grant rom-com, Notting Hill.  (Apologies for the poor pic - the house was undergoing repairs.)

Kenwood House - under renos
After about an hour and a half of walking, we made our way across the Heath, spying a couple of London's famous green parrots. It was now time to head back for birthday tea.

Heading Home Across the Heath
Thanks for dropping by...what's your favourite city?







London Calling

I love London.

A deep, abiding, can't get enough of it, kind of love. I daydream about it. I scheme about what we'll do together next. I keep tabs on its capers. So, after the delightful tryst with Cheltenham, my heart quickened as we drove through the enchanting Cotswolds to the city of my dreams.

The main event was to happen on our first night in town: Guv's Birthday Do. I was so excited to see my cousins and their girlfriends again...it's been years since I had seen them altogether! And so...all gussied up, we set off to St. James's Street.

Needless to say, the evening was absolutely perfect: Pol Roger & Canapes; Chicken & Smoked Quail Terrine; Halibut with Pea Puree, Tomato Compote, Confit Potato & Herb Cream; Watermelon Sorbet; Breast of Duck with Confit Leg, Cherry Compote, Artichoke Puree & Kirsch Jus; Dark Chocolate Sphere filled with Black Cherry Mousse; and, my favourite of all - Half a Baby Stilton with a very fine Old Tawny Port. My darling uncle couldn't have chosen a more perfect menu! I only wish all the family could have been there!
Happy Birthday Guv!
And so, after rousing speeches, giggles, and tears, we all begged that the event be made an annual one!

Tuesday 22 October 2013

En Route to India


En route to India we popped by the UK to celebrate Guv's (aka my uncle's) 70th birthday and visit with family & friends. We started in the elegant spa city of Cheltenham, where my mother & uncle spent their childhoods.

Guv took us for lunch at The Langton, a lovely restaurant housed in a classic Georgian building that used to be a part of the Charlton Park Convent School, which he and my ma had attended as chiddlers.

The Langton, Cheltenham

Once inside, there was quite a surprise for us, for as we walked into the bar, there hung the old school photo, including my mother.

Charlton Park School Photo - date tbd
Doesn't it look smashing! I love those photos of the whole school in one sitting! Funnily enough, I have the photo and have been meaning to have it framed. Just moved that up the list! I had a lovely chat with one of the staff, who are trying to pinpoint the date the photo was taken...so, once I'm home, I'll be forwarding details to them. I believe there were also some small boys at either end of the photo who are missing in this grand reproduction.

Mum & Me - together again!
That's Mum in the white shirt and tie...second to the right (when you're looking at me), and my godmother fifth to the right, same row.
The lovely Langton
Oh, and by the way, the food, service, and decor in The Langton were all perfect! Another lovely day!

Thanks for stopping by...xoxox


Monday 21 October 2013

Naming a Mascot...

Check out the handsome fella below.

Nameless handsome mascot


Quite distinguished and noble, isn't he?

He is my Blog Mascot, but before I introduce him properly, he really needs a name.

There's Jumbo, Dumbo, Pachy, and Airavata...there's Elmer, Babar, Horton, and Queenie...but, whatever he is called, he's no White Elephant!

I'd be ever so grateful if you'd help me out and leave your mightiest moniker for my mascot in the Comments section. Don't forget to check back and see what we came up with!

Oh, and incidentally, I'm having a wonderful time in India...more details to follow soon.

Thanks for stopping by!

xoxo